Monday, October 12, 2009

...but you get what you need


look at this little lady. we love her so much. as eli did, she has brought so much happiness and joy into our lives.

you can't always get what you want. we have decided to postpone our move to california. ida's health is first and foremost and as she is not technically a sick child, she does have a strange and special circumstance with her diagnosis of FPIES. it has been such a difficult decision to make as the ball has been rolling full steam towards california. we sold our house months ago, our belongs have been packed, we have made several trips, worrying, praying, and preparing. last week our eyes were opened to what is going to be ahead of us for a few years. we had to take a few steps back and look at our situation.

...but you get what you need. after a few days of hashing it out, the choice to stay in calgary until ida has grown out of FPIES clearly has became the right/smart/correct choice. her health care is excellent, our out of pocket nothing, our stress level minimized as we maneuver through this. we searched the mls thursday, looked at 5 homes friday morning, put an offer on a house saturday afternoon and agreed on a price that evening. just. like. that. our possession date is november 13th. what i want to tell you is that the Lord provides. we feel so strongly that the decision we have made is what we need to do for her right now and i can't tell you how good that feels. we would be lying if we said we didn't have a level of disappointment. however the blessing and peace of mind knowing we have made the best choice possible outweighs the bummer-ness of the situation.

now. let's get on with life. a new chapter. here we go.

p.s. happy thanksgiving.

p.p.s i guess i should state where we will be moving to... the home we have found is in rock lake estates in rocky ridge. we will be just down the street from the soon-to-be-built calgary temple. what a perk that will be!

5 comments:

Bethany said...

I love that feeling.

And I totally understand the disappointment part. But I love when the peace outweighs the disappointment.

Congratulations.

And happy Thanksgiving.

p.s. We'll continue to miss you guys for the next few years.

Lifes Delish said...

Decisions, decisions...what's best for the kiddos...such relief when you finally know what's right. Isn't parenting fun? So happy you know where you need to be right now. Loves.

Maja said...

I am so sorry California didn't work out - but am SO HAPPY that you are staying!!! AND that it was the right decision for your family. It is so great when you see Heavenly Father's hand in your life. Also - when things work out so easy like that - I am ALWAYS convinced that it was just meant to be! Happy for you.

Unknown said...

I love this. I'm glad you are staying and love when you make the right choice and everything just falls into place. Thanks for sharing it with us.

the essentials in life said...

I'm so glad things are working out. Funny how all the bumps in the road was the Lords way of saying you needed to stay right where you are. Cool!! You'll be by the temple.